Dayyumm, I don't know how to start. Okay, I'm not sure what to call these types of ladies - sensitive, insecure, emotional, etc but I hate them. I'm a woman too, by the way, but I'm significantly less sensitive and really understanding.
My girl friends and I had a pretty BIG misunderstanding that made me look like the bad person now. I got sad 'cause misunderstanding with my friends and them, not letting it go like how they don't let go of the bad things their boyfriends have done in the past that they still put it on their every fight, is one of the things I would cry for.
So, they were talking about accidentally losing some of their seminar/training certificates, making a very, very big deal out of it. "Oh my God, I will never be hired", "Oh my gosh, my Aunt threw them all away, I'm so dead." and "Oh my goodness, I cannot say I really attended any seminars/training in my resume without those." and more stuffs like that. I don't know what I was thinking that I suddenly told them "Um, It's okay, really, If you lose it. I lost 75% of my certificates. I've never touched the rest of it. Besides, I have never heard of unemployed people being unemployed just because they lost their certificates that in fact, 5%, 3%, I don't know, maybe 0% of companies really look for the certificates. And did you know that companies owned by foreigners don't really rely on whatever certificates you have 'cause what they would want to see is what your performance will be.(since most of the companies we'll be applying, I guess, could be owned by Foreigners.) so yeah, it's really really really Okay. Don't think too much about it, you know, we could still go on, don't bother asking for copies unless you want a souvenir." then I left. I'm aware that I killed their conversation LOL. It's Always like that.
The next day, a guy friend of mine told me that one of our girl friends is angry at me. I was shocked, surprised? what's less exaggerated? and at the same time, really confused. He told me that she told him that when I left, they get annoyed by me, saying things like, "Oh, certificate is not important", "Oh, it's okay to throw it away.", "Oh, in America, you don't need certificate" LOL and that some of them even said, "Bakit, nasa America ka ba? (Why, are you in America?)" when I left. I got sad. All that came out of my mouth was, "Oh my God, they didn't get what I said... they didn't know what I mean.. and they obviously wasn't listening to me." I even thought of the word "foreigner" first before saying it so that they won't think it's the country I was talking about but hell, stupidity has its ways. "I just thought it could get them out of their worries and lift their spirits up ha-ha-ha", I continued.
...And that's how I suck at trying to make people feel better! BOW.
Friday, January 27, 2012
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